The Gentleman's Shawl - A Style Guide for Men

By Peepal Haveli - gifts rooted in Indian craft

The shawl has a long history in menswear that predates most of today's winter coats - from royal courts to formal ceremonial dress across South Asia. Yet it's one of the most underused pieces in a modern man's wardrobe, largely because there's little guidance on how to actually wear one. Here's a practical starting point.

Choosing the Right Shawl

For formal and festive occasions (weddings, ceremonies, cultural events), look for heritage weaves with visible craftsmanship - a Kani or Jamawar shawl in a rich, solid tone carries presence without needing embellishment. These pair naturally with a kurta, bandhgala, or a tailored suit for a fusion look.

For everyday and smart-casual wear, a finer pashmina or wool-blend shawl in a plain or subtly textured weave works over a coat, blazer, or knitwear. Solid neutrals - grey, navy, camel, charcoal - integrate most easily into an existing wardrobe.

Colour guidance:

• Deep, muted tones (navy, charcoal, maroon, forest green) read as classic and versatile
• Lighter neutrals (beige, stone, soft grey) work well for daytime and smart-casual settings
• Reserve brighter or more ornate pieces for occasions where a statement is appropriate - weddings, festivals, formal events

How to Wear It - Three Approaches

1. Over one shoulder, formal drape Fold the shawl lengthwise and drape it over one shoulder, letting it hang down the front and back. This is the traditional formal styling for ceremonial and festive wear, typically over a kurta or bandhgala.

2. Flat across both shoulders, under a coat For everyday warmth, drape the shawl evenly across both shoulders, letting the ends hang at the front, then wear an open coat or blazer over it. This reads as a deliberate layering choice rather than an unfamiliar accessory.

3. Folded as a scarf-style wrap For a more minimal, modern take, fold the shawl into a narrower width and wear it looped once around the neck, similar to a scarf. This works particularly well with simpler pashmina pieces in solid colours, ideal for smart-casual daywear.

Pairing Suggestions

• With a suit - a solid charcoal or navy pashmina shawl, draped flat under an open overcoat
• With a kurta or bandhgala - a Kani or Jamawar shawl in a deep solid tone, draped formally over one shoulder
• With knitwear and jeans - a textured wool-blend shawl, loosely looped scarf-style

A Note on Confidence

The biggest barrier to men wearing shawls well isn't styling - it's hesitation. Worn with the same confidence as a good coat or a well-chosen tie, a shawl reads as considered, not unfamiliar. Start with a solid, versatile piece before moving into more ornate heritage weaves for special occasions.